Do Not Spend Another Dime On Seduction Material

I'm just going to come out and say it and spare you all the sugar coating and BS:

There are a LOT of people out there who are not really comfortable with who they are around women.

What’s scarier is that there are lots of guys out they who aren’t comfortable with who they are in general.

So what do they do?

They try to fit in.

Or even worse, they try to blend in.

Hey, I understand. I’ve been there.

It’s so easy to think: “what the HECK are these guys thinking?!”

It’s easy to forget that I was there, too, not too long ago.

So why is it that people follow the same routine that every other hopeless guy is following?

People follow a routine because they believe that their "self" is not attractive enough to hot women.

That's why dudes at the club all wear the same thing; that's why guys shower girls with compliments.

… And that's why, no matter what they do, they will always fail with women.

They are just not comfortable with who they are, otherwise they would look unique and act uniquely, because everyone is unique.

No two people are the same. We all know this is true.

So they look to the PUA community for advice, and what does the PUA community try to do to address this problem?

They get you to follow a different routine, but it's still a routine.

It doesn't fix the actual problem, but instead treats the symptoms.

They get you to go “sarging” four nights a week, use canned material, put on ridiculous clothes, and even change your name!

While all those PUA gurus offer valuable insight into the world of women and sexual attraction, this whole "you need to build an avatar" mentality is absurd and counter-productive.

Sure they can show you results and go pick up a woman right before your eyes and then try to sell you their style.

The problem is that their style is their style!

It probably doesn't work for you because you are different.

The whole avatar thing is great for people like Mystery. He is a magician for crying out loud! Of course that is going to work for him!

His passions are things like stage magic, sleight of hand, and putting on a show.

But are you a magician? Do you share the same interests or passions?

Probably not.

I know I don’t, and that’s why I ultimately had to change my approach.

You’ll never believe what I discovered!

I learned that men who have to put on a front to attract women are subconsciously conveying their insecurities.

Women can sense it.

But there is some great news!

You don’t ever actually have to try to be someone you aren’t to attract women.

All you have to do is figure out how and where you want to go to meet women that are interested in the same things you are interested in.

 
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